There are a lot of people nowadays that have not been properly taken care of by their parents while they are still young because they have not received the proper parenting and that made them become someone who would cause a lot of problems to our society. Smothering your children would not be a good idea when you are providing your care and attention to them as it may cause some negative effects on them when they grow up. There are some problems that would be developed by children who are overly protected by their parents as they would not develop into someone independent as they would always rely on their parents for everything that they need. There are some children that have developed some problems in their personality because of the smothering that are done by their parents that is why parents should know how to properly take care of their children. As our children would grow up, we should know that it is important that we should be able to give them some independence so that they would be able to know how to explore for themselves. It is important that you should be able to teach your children on how to be independent so that when the time would come where they would need to decide for themselves, they would be able to know what to do.
We would want the best for our children but we should know that putting a lot of pressure on them in having them do a lot of things would not be healthy for their mental state. We should give our children a chance to do the things that they want to do so that they would be able to know what they would want as it could help them choose a path where they could be happy in the future. Giving a lot of freedom can also be a bad thing for our children that is why we are there for them so that we would be able to provide them with some guidance. Our parenting skills may be not that great at first but with the proper research and experience on how to take care of our children, we would surely be able to develop ourselves and would know how to provide the things that our children would need. We would surely feel more accomplished if we are able to raise our children properly that is why it is important that we should be able to put a lot of effort in doing so.